How To Have a Great Conversation With a Woman

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What do you do when you see a woman you are interested in and you only have a few minutes to make your move? Would you choose to let the moment slip away or decide to gather all the inner manly strengths you have just to utter up a simple "hello"?

A good way to start a conversation with someone is by saying the simple "hi". By doing this, you have initially bridged the gap and made some sort of connection between you and her. Follow-up this move with a unique observation you have made when you looked at her. Say for example, you see that she's wearing a watch or bracelet. Say something like "That's a nice watch/bracelet", but don't forget to follow up again with an open ended question - a question not answerable by a "yes" or "no". When you have successfully made these moves, you are now ready to engage her into sharing her thoughts with you.

But before you start asking her personal questions, always remember to first build rapport with her. The key to making her open up to you is to first "make friends" with her. When talking with a woman, try to have a natural curiosity towards her. Natural questions involve topics on what she does, what her hobbies are or what are her special interests. You can also talk about daily "natural" things such as music, movies, television shows and current events. Once you discover a mutual interest, that's the time you go deeper into the conversation and narrow down the topic.

Another issue with conversing with a woman is when you're trying too hard to be at her level of understanding. What many men usually forget when talking with women is that women are picturing in their minds whatever you describe during your conversations. Along with those pictures, they usually feel whatever feelings go along with it. Men should therefore put emphasis on their conversations on directing it discussions of feeling connected, and loved, and aroused.

I therefore suggest that whenever you are initiating a conversation with a woman, always put in mind a certain goal. Make sure you monitor your actions and words. Think of upcoming or follow-up questions to make the conversation flow freely with awkward interruptions. Most important of all, practice. Whenever you get the chance to converse with anyone, apply all the conversation knowledge you may have.

Don't even think of starting your practice tomorrow. Take the risk of interacting with women, TODAY. To give you an idea of what I'm trying to imply, here's a quote from a famous writer about interacting with people:

"But let me tell you, that to approach the stranger
Is to invite the unexpected, release a new force,
Or let the genie out of the bottle.
It is to start a train of events
Beyond your control."
-T. S. Eliot, "The Cocktail Party"

Whatever may happen or whatever the result of your interactions and conversations, always put in mind that this is a starting point of a "trail of events". Therefore, if you want to start something, do something.

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How To Tell If A Woman Is Interested In You

Admit it. Men don't usually pick up signs very easily. And because of this, it is quite difficult for men to understand what a woman feels and what's going on inside her mind. What makes this scenario worse is that women often use body language and non-verbal actions to "say" what they mean rather than actually verbalizing it. This makes it very troubling for men to decipher a woman's true intent when it comes to relationships.

So how do you tell if you're pushing the appropriate buttons when you're with a woman? How do you know when a woman is interested and attracted to you?

Experts say that 7% of a woman's attraction is shown through her verbal communication, 38% from her tone and 50% from her body language. This implies that if a woman is interested in you, she will SHOW interest in you.

Many have said that a sure shot way to test whether a woman is interested in you or not is to flirt with her. There are several ways to initiate flirting which could include simple and discreet conversations or advanced physical actions. If the woman flirts back, then you've got a match. If your entire conversation with the woman has a flirtatious undertone backed by a body language mixed into it, then you've pushed the right buttons. By observing a woman's body language, you may get your answer to how to tell if a woman is interested in you. Here are a few of the signs that tell if she's got the eye for you:

* As I have mentioned, when you flirt with her, she flirts back. No matter how much you advance, if the woman is ready to flirt back, then you have gained her interest.

* If she points toward you or faces you. Women may point with their shoulder, their leg or their whole body. Beware if she seems to be pointing the opposite direction. Folded arms, a stiff back and leaning away from you are signs that she wants out of the situation. It is time to hit the road, buddy.

* Be observant enough and watch her eyes. If her eyes are focused intently on you and her gaze is not straying around the room, she is most likely quite interested to get to know you. If her eyes are dilated, don't be scared. When a woman is attracted to you, her eyes will slightly dilate during your interaction. Take note, she has no control over this, so better watch out for this sign.

* Does she seem to be involved in your conversation? If she is attracted to you, nothing else is going to occupy her attention while you are talking to her. She will take interest in whatever you have to say, listen keenly about your work, know more about your past and will always be happy to learn more about you.

* The best and probably easiest predictor of her interest is her physical contact with you. The more physical contact she has with you during your conversation, the better. If you touch a woman and she allows it and she is not stiff, then she is comfortable around you. From here on, you can take the next step to building a relationship with her.

Once you have made your unconscious mind aware of these subtle signs, you will then be able to transform your dating life and tell whether a woman is interested or not just by interpreting her actions. You will be able to see a world of women that most men don't see because they are too busy looking at the woman as an object

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Master the Art of Flirting

Men flirt in different ways and for different reasons. Some flirt primarily to get into the ladies' underpants, while others do it to meet new people. For some, flirting is just pure fun. But not all men have mastered the art of flirting. A few may still have trouble approaching a girl they like. Building attraction and showing interest can be done in subtle ways. To be successful in seducing women, mastering flirting skills is a must. First things first: Take a very good look at yourself. Do you even have a mirror? Personal hygiene still plays a major role in catching her attention.

No, don't douse yourself with cologne. It will only drive her away. A fresh face, fresh breath and fresh clothes are enough to boost your confidence and make her notice you. Be approachable but avoid being too loud. Smile or laugh when she looks your way. Women are often turned off by annoyingly loud persons who seem to look for a lot of attention. Men with a hint of fun, sophistication and an air of mystery are the ones ladies find hard to ignore. Men with humorous personality often have an easier time breaking the ice and meet someone. Childish pranks and silly jokes should be left at home.

If you have an opportunity to crack a joke, go for it. If not, just enjoy a meaningful conversation with her. It's better to sit back and relax than look corny and juvenile. Be a good listener. Women love it when they find a man who knows how to pay attention. Look into her eyes but avoid staring at her chest lustfully. Flirt with your body. Body language flirting such as stroking your hair, licking lips and leaning in toward the person will surely captivate her attention. On the other hand, look for her subtle (or maybe not -so-subtle) movements too.

A folded arms and tensed body screams of "DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT IT". Respect her space. Keep your hands in your pocket. Or hold your bottle of beer, whatever. Some women have no objection to being touched, but there are still others who get horrified by it. If you want to test her personal space, move closer a little each time. Then move back a little and notice her reactions. If she doesn't slap you, then you're on a roll! Touching is a lovely flirty reaction only if she welcomes it. Ask for her number only if you really intend to call.

Flirting is not just about looking out for prospects. It's also about making new connections and having fun. If you have no plans of using her number, don't ask. Don't give false hopes and make her wait for a phone call that you'll never make. Don't forget your self-respect. How else will she respect you if you don't show any self-respect at all? You'll only look like the loser that you already are if you hover and grovel and be desperate. You are special and you deserve her so act like it! Be yourself. Show your best. Be proud of what you are but find ways to improve yourself if you have to.

Remember, there's always somebody out there who will like you for what you really are.

The author of this article Ruth Purple is a Relationship Coach who has been successfully coaching and guiding clients for many years. Ruth recently decided to go public and share her knowledge and experience through her website http://www.relazine.com. You can sign up for her free newsletter and join her coaching program.

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