How To Have a Great Conversation With a Woman

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What do you do when you see a woman you are interested in and you only have a few minutes to make your move? Would you choose to let the moment slip away or decide to gather all the inner manly strengths you have just to utter up a simple "hello"?

A good way to start a conversation with someone is by saying the simple "hi". By doing this, you have initially bridged the gap and made some sort of connection between you and her. Follow-up this move with a unique observation you have made when you looked at her. Say for example, you see that she's wearing a watch or bracelet. Say something like "That's a nice watch/bracelet", but don't forget to follow up again with an open ended question - a question not answerable by a "yes" or "no". When you have successfully made these moves, you are now ready to engage her into sharing her thoughts with you.

But before you start asking her personal questions, always remember to first build rapport with her. The key to making her open up to you is to first "make friends" with her. When talking with a woman, try to have a natural curiosity towards her. Natural questions involve topics on what she does, what her hobbies are or what are her special interests. You can also talk about daily "natural" things such as music, movies, television shows and current events. Once you discover a mutual interest, that's the time you go deeper into the conversation and narrow down the topic.

Another issue with conversing with a woman is when you're trying too hard to be at her level of understanding. What many men usually forget when talking with women is that women are picturing in their minds whatever you describe during your conversations. Along with those pictures, they usually feel whatever feelings go along with it. Men should therefore put emphasis on their conversations on directing it discussions of feeling connected, and loved, and aroused.

I therefore suggest that whenever you are initiating a conversation with a woman, always put in mind a certain goal. Make sure you monitor your actions and words. Think of upcoming or follow-up questions to make the conversation flow freely with awkward interruptions. Most important of all, practice. Whenever you get the chance to converse with anyone, apply all the conversation knowledge you may have.

Don't even think of starting your practice tomorrow. Take the risk of interacting with women, TODAY. To give you an idea of what I'm trying to imply, here's a quote from a famous writer about interacting with people:

"But let me tell you, that to approach the stranger
Is to invite the unexpected, release a new force,
Or let the genie out of the bottle.
It is to start a train of events
Beyond your control."
-T. S. Eliot, "The Cocktail Party"

Whatever may happen or whatever the result of your interactions and conversations, always put in mind that this is a starting point of a "trail of events". Therefore, if you want to start something, do something.

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