Sunday, November 23, 2008

How To Tell If A Woman Is Interested In You

Admit it. Men don't usually pick up signs very easily. And because of this, it is quite difficult for men to understand what a woman feels and what's going on inside her mind. What makes this scenario worse is that women often use body language and non-verbal actions to "say" what they mean rather than actually verbalizing it. This makes it very troubling for men to decipher a woman's true intent when it comes to relationships.

So how do you tell if you're pushing the appropriate buttons when you're with a woman? How do you know when a woman is interested and attracted to you?

Experts say that 7% of a woman's attraction is shown through her verbal communication, 38% from her tone and 50% from her body language. This implies that if a woman is interested in you, she will SHOW interest in you.

Many have said that a sure shot way to test whether a woman is interested in you or not is to flirt with her. There are several ways to initiate flirting which could include simple and discreet conversations or advanced physical actions. If the woman flirts back, then you've got a match. If your entire conversation with the woman has a flirtatious undertone backed by a body language mixed into it, then you've pushed the right buttons. By observing a woman's body language, you may get your answer to how to tell if a woman is interested in you. Here are a few of the signs that tell if she's got the eye for you:

* As I have mentioned, when you flirt with her, she flirts back. No matter how much you advance, if the woman is ready to flirt back, then you have gained her interest.

* If she points toward you or faces you. Women may point with their shoulder, their leg or their whole body. Beware if she seems to be pointing the opposite direction. Folded arms, a stiff back and leaning away from you are signs that she wants out of the situation. It is time to hit the road, buddy.

* Be observant enough and watch her eyes. If her eyes are focused intently on you and her gaze is not straying around the room, she is most likely quite interested to get to know you. If her eyes are dilated, don't be scared. When a woman is attracted to you, her eyes will slightly dilate during your interaction. Take note, she has no control over this, so better watch out for this sign.

* Does she seem to be involved in your conversation? If she is attracted to you, nothing else is going to occupy her attention while you are talking to her. She will take interest in whatever you have to say, listen keenly about your work, know more about your past and will always be happy to learn more about you.

* The best and probably easiest predictor of her interest is her physical contact with you. The more physical contact she has with you during your conversation, the better. If you touch a woman and she allows it and she is not stiff, then she is comfortable around you. From here on, you can take the next step to building a relationship with her.

Once you have made your unconscious mind aware of these subtle signs, you will then be able to transform your dating life and tell whether a woman is interested or not just by interpreting her actions. You will be able to see a world of women that most men don't see because they are too busy looking at the woman as an object

Vera More


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